Client-Facing Volunteers and Traumatic Effects
Clients needing social services can be suffering personal disasters that are microcosms of community disasters.
Client-facing volunteers can face similar emotions as disaster responders.
Delayed Reactions to Disaster and Trauma
The full emotional impact of disaster is often delayed three to ten months or more after survivors get a handle on practical matters and begin to realise the permanence of some of their losses. The knowledge sets in that the recovery and grieving process may be very long. While persons less directly affected by the trauma go on with normal routines, trauma survivors often report a sense of telescoped time, i.e., it feels as if the trauma occurred more recently or much longer ago than it actually occurred. As we experience new traumas, we frequently “re-visit” earlier traumas.“Trigger events” (such as future storms for storm survivors or news reports of violent crime for crime survivors) or seemingly insignificant triggers such as a familiar sight, sound, or smell can bring up earlier traumas for years to come.
Avoidance and Minimising ︎
Trauma survivors and those who emotionally support them (including pastors and other clergy) may minimise and mask ongoing pain in the name of “busy-ness” and “doing.” In the stress of recovery, thinking may be clouded and persons may cut off from their normal support systems. This is especially important for congregations to understand. Survivors sometimes minimise their pain or the damage their families received. Common statements (which could be either honest positive coping or minimising) include, “Others are so much worse off than we are” or “It could have been much worse.”
Shame at Needing Help and Frustration with the Loss of Control
Those who are displaying clear signs of depression and stress disorders are often hesitant to ask for help. Please remember that, in spite of our proclamations of grace and acknowledgment of human frailty, we often find it very difficult to admit we’re not doing fine. One of the most pronounced frustrations among trauma survivors relates to a loss of control. This is especially difficult and painful as persons who have prided themselves on their self-sufficiency find themselves needing help.
Trauma reactions are often contagious. Persons who did not directly experience trauma but who work(ed) closely with survivors can suffer from secondary traumatisation or “compassion fatigue” which mimics post traumatic stress symptoms.
Trauma exacerbates difficult situations which were present before the trauma. Be aware that family, group dynamic, employment, and other personal difficulties may become more pronounced in the coming months. Churches most closely connected to this disaster may see increased stress related conflict.
Theology in Disaster
Religious statements that we might consider disturbing often surface. Compassion is more important than correcting theology. As persons struggle to make sense of this tragedy, religious themes tend to centre around issues of the will of God, the degree of permission persons give themselves to be angry at God, and God’s control over the events. Our culture has come to “honour” survivors of trauma or disaster. Although most survivors would not seek this honouring, it does seem to help survivors by legitimising their experiences.
Source: United Methodist Committee on Relief (UMCOR) – Rev. Mary E. Hughes Gaudreau, L.P.C.